Frequently asked questions

Here you'll find the answers to our most frequently asked questions. If your question is not covered please feel free to contact us.

Fanciful is a global marketplace for independently organised dating events.

All of the in-person dating events listed on Fanciful are independently organised run by local, independent event creators but are powered by our ticketing, event management and matching functionally. Think of us as Etsy but for dating events!

We provide local event listings, ticketing, and a full-service event management platform for local organisers of live and virtual dating events. We also list our own in-house virtual speed dating events powered by our own technology.

Singles use Fanciful to find interesting dating events and easily book tickets from a host of local organisers, safe in the knowledge their event is hosted on the industry leading Fanciful platform.

Whether you you are a dater or and dating event organiser, we welcome you to Fanciful.

Anyone can become a Fanciful event organiser, apply here.

Speed dating is a tried and tested matchmaking format where singles have a series of short, face to face dates with potential matches. Each date typically lasts a few minutes, after which the participants move on to the next person.

Some events are designed for a particular age range or demographic or sexuality and some are open to a wider audience.

In an increasingly online world, Fanciful champtions the enormous benfitits of meeting people live and face either in-person or at virtual speed dating events hosted on our platform.

The concept of virtual speed dating is very similar to in-person speed dating. You enjoy multiple face-to-face short dates except virtual speed dating takes place via your mobile device or computer browser. Fanciful virtual speed dating events are fully automatic. Sign up, click the joining link and we'll bring the dates to you wherever you are. Afterwards, you find out who you are mutually matched with and have the ability to chat and message with those where you see potential. You'll love the experience and there's nothing else quite like it.

Every organiser develops a unique approach but most speed dating events begin with a brief introduction from the event host. Participants are then invited to sit in couples at numbered tables around the venue. Everyone is usually given a 'scorecard' as a means to keep track of everyone they meet. When the event is underway couples speak and get to know each other for around four minutes or until the the host signals the end of the date.

Everyone will rotate through the tables to have brief conversations with each participant. There's usually a break halfway through allowing a well-earned refreshment. At the end of the event, participants log in to Fanciful and indicate which people they would like to see again. When the matches are published, and if there's a mutual interest between couples, the participants can message the people they matched with via the website and arrange to meet again.

Speed dating is a hugely enjoyable and fast-paced way to meet and speak to lots of people in one night.

Typically, each speed date interaction lasts between 3-6 minutes. This may vary depending on the event organiser and the number of participants taking part. We find this is just long enough to decide if you like someone and not too long if you don't!

This can vary depending on the organiser, the event location, the night of the week and the event theme but typically you will meet between 10-20 people at a speed dating event.

Speed dating is a great option for anyone who is looking to meet new people and potentially find a romantic partner. It's a fun and low-pressure way to connect with others who are also looking for love.

Most people who have never tried the concept are often nervous to try it but most people find they quickly adapt to it and really enjoy the experience.

Meeting new people face to face is generally a fun and uplifting experience and does wonders for your social confidence.

It's important to know that every speed dating event is different and a different crowd attends every one. If you tried it before and it didn't work, give it another shot. You never know who you could meet at your next attempt.

You can sign up for a speed dating event on Fanciful. Simply choose the event you're interested in attending, and complete the sign up process. Remember, Fanciful is the platform and not the organiser so contact them directly if you have any specific questions about your event or booking.

We recommend wearing something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Dressing up just a little bit can also help you make a good first impression. It's unusual for there to be a strict dress code at a speed dating event but we'd recommend making an effort to look and feel your best. Check out our blog for tips on how to prepare for your speed dating experience.

Don't worry, whilst speed dating does have a great success rate and lots of people find mutual matches, it's not uncommon to not get any matches at a speed dating event.

Like all forms of dating, you should try it multiple times as every event is different and different people attend. Meeting new people is hugely confidence-building.

Speed dating offers a great way to meet new people in a controlled public environment. Events are hosted and held in great venues. We'd recommend not sharing your personal details with anyone until you are comfortable and trust them. If you attend a Fanciful virtual event all video interactions are recorded. It's also possible to end a virtual date early if you are in anyway unconfortable.

Generally, speed dating events are designed for individuals to attend on their own or for groups of friends who are all taking part in the event.

However, some organisers may allow you to bring a friend as a wingman or wing woman. Check with the event organiser for their specific policy.

Yes, you can cancel your registration for a speed dating event, but you will be required to give a certain amount of notice notice in order to reschedule to another event. Your ticket is unlikely to be refundable. Check the policy on your booking confirmation email or contact your organiser directly.

You can contact your event organiser through the contact information provided on the event page of our website or the details on your booking confirmation email. Fanciful is a platform and as such cannot assist you with individual event or ticket enquiries.

Yes, please do. We're built by a tiny team and we rely on customer feedback to improve. Our email is support@fanciful.app. Please note this email cannot be for event or booking enquiries.

Yes, please send any feedback to support@fanciful.app and we'll look into it. We cannot assist with individual customer service issues around ticketing and events as these must be directed to the organiser.

If you think you have what it takes to run brilliant dating events we'd love to work with you. Check out our organiser pages to find out more and apply.

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